Move testing to more recent dependencies
Ubuntu Xenial is now EOL. We can update dependencies to those that are in both:
- Ubuntu 18.04 LTS (Bionic Beaver)
- Debian GNU/Linux 10 (Buster)
- and Fedora stable, but it will always be more recent than Ubuntu/Debian, so let's not consider it.
Red-hat is always too old and users should use spack on it.